For a lot of people anal sex is a taboo topic and WOW are they missing out.

FOR MEN, they were born with a MAJOR erogenous zone right past the sphincter, known as the prostate, a.k.a. p-spot….so men should definitely try it! (check out my “We found the G-spot, so now on to the P-spot!!!” post to find your special spot!)

FOR WOMEN, if it’s done while in the doggie-style position, you can tilt your hips back and angle the penis/toy down which will directly hit the g-spot instead of rubbing next to it like during vaginal sex.

There are many different ways to enter the anal world. Like with all sex toys, start small and work your way up to bigger and more adventurous toys/positions. Many people experiment with finger insertion first. This is a great way to see if it’s a sensation that you’d like to further explore.

Tips for finger play:

• Keep nails trimmed or use a finger condom.
• Never go from the anus to the vagina without thoroughly washing your hands first.
• Use lubrication.

Some people like the sensation, but don’t like using fingers or it’s uncomfortable due to long/fake nails. In that case, here’s a great product you can use:

Bottoms Up – Finger Rimmers:

After experimenting with finger/finger rimmers, then  you can move up to actually having anal sex. Generally if it’s your first time there are 2 things you want to remember: 1) the slower the better, 2) lots of lube!!

For your first time receiving, apply a generous amount of lube on you and your partner. Then place your hand on your partners hip and guide them by pushing and pulling on their hip. It’s very important to take your time and go at YOUR pace. This will prevent any discomfort. Also remember to breathe and relax and have FUN!

Then once you get rockin’ and rollin’, then you can start working on adding more accessories. Check out my anal accessories blog…COMING SOON!!!